

Explore Our Upcoming Events
Thank you for joining us at Sanctum. We're happy you're coming to explore what our community can offer. Check out our diverse events below, including parties, socials, munches and discussion groups!
Game & Play Dungeon Party!
We are excited to have a game night!!! We will have various games set up (we are looking for fan favorites, suggestions welcome!) including twister, jenga and other fun options like impact battleship and cards against humanity. You are also welcome to bring your own games!
*ticket required.
Date: October 4, 2025
Time: 8pm - 12am
Location: Kink Center/Cap Hill
Sunday Munch!
Connect with other kinky (or curious!) people with a casual, outdoor picnic-style setting with brief introductions and un-led conversation. Very newbie friendly, expect a friendly and welcoming vibe :)
*un-ticketed/open event
Date: October 5, 2025
Time: 12pm - 1:30pm
Location: Armistice Coffee on Roosevelt (Seattle)
**We will be in one of the outdoor seating areas, please check the fetlife event at start time for an update!
Beneath & Beyond
This is a community for those who live, love, and explore the world from the bottom side of the slash — whether you're a brat, sub, rope bunny, masochist, pet, little, or anyone who craves giving up control.
*registration required
Date: October 9, 2025
Time: 6pm - 7:30pm
Location: North Seattle / details with registration
Power Exchange Discussion Group
This group is for anyone in (or who wishes to live within) a full-time D/s, M/s, O/p or other heavy power exchange relationship, whether Dominant, submissive, or defined as something else.
*registration required
Date: October 18, 2025
Time: 12pm - 1:30pm
Location: North Seattle / details with registration.
Karaoke & Kink Dungeon Party!
It is time to get up and show off your vocal skills at the microphone at this social event where we combine karaoke and kink. We encourage you to choose your own involvement in the night. Socialize and enjoy some badass singing, sing yourself, or enjoy scenes to the sounds of karaoke favorites.
*ticket required
Karaoke runs 6-9 for this party; choose to attend for the whole night (6-12!) or arrive after 8 for a more traditional play party experience. See ticketing options at link below!
Date: October 18, 2025
Time: 6pm - 12am
Location: Kink Center/Cap Hill
Primal Players Group
This munch/discussion group is organized for those of us that desire to connect with others who identify as or are curious and primal play. Join us to discuss what this means to different people, types of play that are engaged in, and their experiences with it.
*un-ticketed event
Date: October 19, 2025
Time: 12pm - 1:30pm
Location: Armistice Coffee (outdoor seating area - check fetlife event page for details at event start!)
Glow & Show Dungeon Party!
Not quite a Halloween party....
We’re turning down the lights and turning up the glow & inviting you to dress up for a party you won’t forget!
Whether you’re here to play, watch, or simply vibe under the blacklights, this is your night to let your wild side shine (literally).
Date: October 25, 2025
Time: 8pm - 12am
Location: Kink Center/Cap Hill
The Upper Hand
A support and discussion space for tops, dominants, sadists, brat-tamers, leash-holders, switches able to attend in a Top leaning headspace - and anyone who loves calling the shots (and hearing “yes, Sir”... or “make me”).
*registration required
Date: October 30, 2025
Time: 6pm-7:30pm
Location: North Seattle/details with registration
Edge Players Group
Edge play - for the purposes of this discussion group - refers to kink that involves pushing the limits of what is typically considered safe or comfortable in BDSM dynamics, play or scenes.
*un-ticketed event
Date: October 23, 2025
Time: 6pm - 7:30 pm
Location: Armistice Coffee (outdoor seating area - check fetlife event page for details at event start!)
Seattle Rope Social!
Join us at the Kink Center in Capital Hill for a social evening focused on rope bondage and building lasting connections with fellow rope enthusiasts. There is no skill, experience, or style requirement to join us for this event.
*ticket required
Date: November 2, 2025
Time: 6pm - 8:30pm
Location: Kink Center / Cap Hill