All rules and guidelines outlined in this document will be strictly enforced during the event. If you have any questions or concerns please talk to a host or dungeon facilitator.

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General Guidelines 

• Attire: Street-legal attire is required outside the venue and in the check-in area.

• Smoking: Smoking and vaping are prohibited inside the building. Please smoke or vape in designated area.

• Cleanliness: Keep the area clean. Put away all play and personal items when not in use in designated areas. Sanitize equipment before and after use with provided supplies, unless it has been visibly cleaned.

• Cell Phones: Cell phone usage is allowed  and must adhere to the Cell Phone Policy.

• Signage & Directions: Please be attentive and comply with all posted signage and directions provided by event staff.

• Safety & Security: For your safety and the safety of others, please follow the instructions of event staff at all times.

• Code of Conduct: We expect all attendees to behave in a respectful and considerate manner towards others. Any form of harassment, violence, or disruptive behavior will not be tolerated.

• Emergency Procedures: In the event of an emergency, please remain calm and follow the instructions of event staff. Familiarize yourself with the location of emergency exits and cleanup/first aid stations.

• Additional Rules: Specific areas or activities within the event may have additional rules posted. Please observe these rules for your safety and enjoyment.

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Additional Considerations

• Be aware of the well-being of yourself and others at all times.

• If you see something that concerns you, speak up and report it to a Dungeon Facilitator or host. 

• Do not interrupt someone's scene if you see something that concerns you, talk to a Dungeon Facilitator or host. 

• Be open to feedback and willing to learn from your experiences.

• Remember that everyone is here to have a good time, so be respectful and considerate of others.

 

Play Space Rules

The following rules are designed to create an environment that protects the health and create an enjoyable atmosphere for event attendees. If you have any questions please talk to event staff.

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House Safeword

The designated safeword for this location is "Safeword."

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Using the Safeword

1. Immediate Stop: Use the safeword loudly and clearly to indicate an immediate and complete stop to any scene activity, regardless of what is happening.

2. Staff Intervention: Event staff are trained to listen for the safeword and will immediately intervene to stop the scene if they hear it used.

3. Repetition: Don't hesitate to repeat the safeword multiple times if necessary to ensure that it is heard and that the scene stops. Your safety and comfort are the top priorities.

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Nonverbal Safeword

1. Accessibility: If you are unable to speak or need a nonverbal way to indicate that a scene needs to stop, inform the Dungeon Facilitator before the scene begins. They will work with you to establish a nonverbal signal that can be used to safely stop the scene.

2. Options: Nonverbal safewords can include hand signals, gestures, or other agreed-upon cues.

3. Clarity: Ensure that the nonverbal safeword is clear and easily recognizable by both you and the Dungeon Facilitator to ensure a swift and effective response.

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Remember

• The safeword is always respected.

• There are no consequences for using the safeword.

• Your well-being is paramount.

• Don't hesitate to use the safeword if you need the scene to stop for any reason.

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Genital Hygiene and Protection of Surfaces

• Keep your genitals covered and away from direct contact with surfaces to maintain hygiene and prevent the spread of fluids.  Vinyl or sealed kink furniture are the only exceptions as they are designed for easy cleaning and disinfection.

• Please bring your own tarps, towels, or sheets to protect the play area and maintain hygiene during your session. These coverings are essential for preventing damage to furniture and floors, as well as managing any potential mess.

• Sanctum prioritizes the cleanliness and safety of our play spaces and provides cleaning supplies to clean play stations before and after use; however, Sanctum does not provide protective coverings. Please come prepared with coverings that are appropriate for the size and nature of your planned activities. Remember that maintaining a clean and safe environment is everyone's responsibility.

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Respect for Players and Scenes

• Treat all fellow players with courtesy and consideration, both within and outside of scenes.

• Respect the boundaries and personal space of others, and avoid any behavior that could be interpreted as intrusive or disrespectful.

• Be mindful of the different types of scenes that may be taking place, and avoid disrupting or interfering with them in any way.

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No Interruptions

• Do not interrupt scenes that are in progress, as this can be disruptive and disrespectful to the players involved.

• Allow scenes to unfold naturally and reach their own conclusion without interference.

• Be patient and wait until a scene is over before attempting to interact with the participants.

Aftercare

• Aftercare is an important part of the scene experience, and it should be respected as such.

• Do not interrupt or interfere with aftercare in any way.

• Always ask for consent before interacting with someone who is in aftercare, as they may need time and space to process their experience.

• Be mindful of the emotional and physical state of others, and offer support and assistance if needed.

 

Breath Play

Active breath play is permitted. Breath restriction must require physical interaction to continue. Any restriction must release as soon as the top/giver lets go.

• Examples of Active Breath Play: Choke hold or hand around throat

• Examples of Prohibited Breath Play: Rope tied around neck and tied off to suspension rig or bag over head

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Blood Play

• Blood Play is permitted with proper safety considerations. Please talk to event staff before engaging in any play that will intentionally cause bleeding.

Required Supplies

• Blood barriers

• Sharps containers (if required)

• Cleaning and first aid supplies

Disposal

• Participants must dispose of all contaminated items properly.

• Do not put contaminated items in venue trash unless properly sealed.

• Do not dispose of or leave sharps containers at the venue.

Become Educated

• Educate yourself about bloodborne pathogen risks.

• Understand that other attendees may not consent to these risks.

• Reference:  Red Cross Blood Borne Pathogen Handout

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Prohibited Activities

The following types are play are prohibited at Sanctum Events

• Scat (fecal) play

• Water sports

• Fire play

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Additional Rules and Considerations

• No glitter allowed

• The use of electronic devices is prohibited, except for cell phones and designated devices that have been approved by event personnel.

• The use of sibbians or motor bunnies at the event is generally not permitted. Please consult event staff if you wish to use one.

• Collars or any other item around the neck may not be tied off to a hardpoint

• Edge Play is permitted at play events. Please check in with the dungeon facilitator before engaging in Edge Play.

• Whips are permitted at play events. Please check in with the dungeon facilitator before engaging in the use of whips.